Most Romantic Valentine’s Day Ideas for Lesbian Couples

Lesbian Valentine's Day Ideas
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Every woman wants to feel wooed once in awhile. Valentine’s Day may be the ultimate Hallmark holiday, but it’s the perfect time to get mushy with your honey bun.

It’s an even more apropos celebration for lesbian couples because Valentine’s Day’s pagan roots lie in the celebration of Lupercalia. This festival celebrated the Goddess of Fertility Juno along with the coming of springtime.

So, how do you treat your lady like a goddess this Valentine’s Day? Here are our most romantic lesbian Valentine’s Day ideas for all budgets large and small to wow her this year.

Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue: Turn a Humble Picnic Into a Day She’ll Never Forget

What could be more romantic than invoking this age-old adage of a wedding day? Even if you’re not ready to pop the question, be warned she might be ready to say yes after this picnic, you’ll wow her all the same with this simple but inspired date.

To make a simple picnic extra romantic incorporate everything a bride needs on her wedding day. Here are some ideas for a creative romantic spin on the traditional picnic:

  • Something Old
    • Did your mom or grandma have a picnic basket that they’ve passed down or used forever? Maybe you’ve got the table cloth from your family that they always used at holidays. Perhaps you have a favorite blanket that you’ve cuddled since you were a kid. Use them for this event to make it sentimental and special.
  • Something New
    • Buy a new gift for your lovely. This could be a bracelet or something fun and funky she would admire.
  • Something Borrowed
    • Play around with this idea. Does your girlfriend, or wife, love dogs but can’t have one right now? See if your friend will let you borrow theirs for a romp around the park for the day. Rent a double seater bicycle and ride together to your picnic site. Be creative, that is what builds the romance.
  • Something Blue
    • You could be cheeky here and add a block of blue cheese to the charcuterie board or find a basket from a thrift store and paint it blue. It’s up to you. Maybe you have a fantastic blue dress you look gorgeous in and could wear for the picnic. Or you could channel your inner Tennessee Williams and get your lady a dozen blue roses.

You’ll soon realize that the sandwiches have taken a backseat to cuddling and sky-gazing after this romantic and affordable afternoon adventure.

Take the Backseat: Do Something She Loves and Make the Whole Day About Her

Show your lady that you know her the best by planning her dream day.

Does your special someone love outdoor activities? Are they a daredevil? Take them rock climbing or hire a private guide to take you snorkeling in a new location. 

Does she love movies? Grab all her favorites and plan a night in of binge-watching with all of her favorite candies and movie snacks. Not only does this give you the ultimate opportunity for snuggle time, it shows you’ve been listening and learning about her during your relationship. 

No matter what your lady-love loves make sure the entire focus is all on her for this one special day. She’ll feel spoiled and special. The best.

Table for Two Please: Book Reservations at That Exclusive Restaurant At Which She’s Been Dying To Eat

If you have some cash in the bank, this is a great day to flaunt it a bit. This one can take some planning or an “in” in the kitchen, but it’s a night she’ll never forget.

Research the restaurant and reach out to them about how they can help make things special. Most fine dining spots have a chef’s table experience or something extra special they can do for a date night. 

Ask what their ideas are and explain how much you love her. They’ll book you in and help you make it right. Pop for that bottle of fancy bubbly and enjoy the bliss on your lover’s face as she floats through the courses.

Take Her Away: Plan a Phenomenal Surprise Vacation to Sweep Her Off Her Feet

If you are ready to spare no expense this Valentine’s plan an amazing adventure for your love.

Take advantage of the services of one of our valued partners, IGLTA, the International LGBTQ+ Travel Association, and take her on a trip that will win her heart and show your love like no other.

They offer vacation packages all over the world, all guaranteed to be friendly for LGBTQ+ couples, so there’s no worries. 

Who doesn’t want to be whisked away to Europe or Asia for a week?

Woo Her and Wow Her This Valentine’s Day

We hope you’re ready to plan the best day ever with these lesbian Valentine’s Day ideas list. While you can show her you love her everyday, step up your game and really do something special this Valentine’s.

Not in for the big plan and sweeping her off her feet? Remember, she loves you for you, and fancy chocolate and a sweet card can still be the best present ever. 

Ready to learn more about how to celebrate here in beautiful Florida? Check out our Celebrate section for regular updates on what to do and where to do it as an LGBTQ+ person in Florida!

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Also, while we do our best to highlight LGBTQ-friendly destinations and businesses, info provided is based solely on personal experience and recommendations by community partners. We hope that nobody experiences discrimination or homophobia while visiting Florida and beyond, but we make no guarantees. Please inform us if you experience discrimination or homophobia while visiting any destination so we can make updates to our recommendations.

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